If you’re scrambling for last-minute holiday gifts or second-guessing the gifts you’ve already given, then let me throw you a lifeline. After all, no matter how often you’ve heard “the best gifts in life are free,” it’s important not to toss it aside as a mere cliché. While the material stuff is nice, it’s never the best we can give.
So, what do people really want, more than anything?
They want to be seen, heard, understood, accepted, and validated.
In fact, the people who are special to you deserve more than just a token of appreciation. This is your opportunity to give them deep acknowledgment.
Now, you might be wondering how.
Well, this is one of those things that I categorize as simple, but not necessarily easy. It requires tapping into a spirit of generosity.
Therefore, you need to be fully present; that’s the gift. (pun intended)
You must be willing to give your time and attention — undistracted and wholehearted.
First, put away your phone.
Next, make eye contact.
And then, be curious.
Ultimately, make them feel like there is nobody else in the room.
As you gather with colleagues, friends, and family over the holidays, remember that this is what people really want. YOU are the gift. You have the gift. So, give generously and enjoy!
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