“Growth itself contains the germ of happiness.” Pearl S. Buck
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From Near Death to Crazy Success
As is so often the case, a personal need (or disaster, in this case), led to the invention of a product. A product needed by many, even beyond the intended “target market.” Sales tripled in the first year alone as the founders scrambled to keep up. What great idea do you have that is dying to be born?
“How a Near-Death Mountain Climb Launched One of the Adventure World’s Best-Known Brands.”
Today’s Quote: Leap Toward Success
“We must walk consciously only part way toward our goal and then leap in the dark to our success.” Henry David Thoreau
Too Old to Find another Job?
Think again! Don’t let these myths stop you in your tracks before you even set out to give it your best shot. Here’s the good news – it is NOT too late!
Today’s Quote: What Happiness Depends On
“Happiness depends upon ourselves.” Aristotle
Coda: The High School Senior’s Decision That Became A College Freshman’s Evolution
Employable, profitable, steady. Isn’t that what most people would want their kid’s course of study and career trajectory to be? For my eldest son, that path lasted less than the first semester of his freshman year and I couldn’t
be happier.
In honor of the graduation season and new endings and beginnings, I’m revisiting the big decision my high school senior made last year and how it progressed through freshman year of college. How might it apply to you?
Oldest male child was good about doing his pre-requisite computer science schoolwork and taking his graduation requirement courses.
He played in his Big 10 College’s marching band and was noticed as an asset early on.
He auditioned to play percussion for the theatre club and was selected to work on two musicals. Other kids started to wonder out loud why the heck he wasn’t a music major. I guess it got under his skin.
By early November, there were conversations with professors in the arts school and before winter break, the ONE spot being vacated in the music program was a percussionist’s.
Eldest male child auditioned and GOT IT!!
I’m not writing this to brag. I want you to read and recognize what happens when you stop denying your DNA.
What transpired next shouldn’t be a surprise.
He was sleeping in practice rooms, he was at rehearsals, he was in eight performance groups and had class, he was traveling to NYC to see his professors perform or to get to sit in the orchestra pit on Broadway or to follow someone he respected to a gig.
He was back to eating, breathing and living MUSIC! We could barely get our son to answer texts! I was never happier to not see him or hear from him. (OK, maybe that’s a lie, but you get what I mean)
So what?
I share this as an appeal. Whether you are guiding a young person during graduation season, graduating yourself, or looking at the next horizon for yourself, please don’t give up on what you are wired for.
Are we all going to make a living at this very thing? Maybe not. However, I can tell you that you’ll need the essence of your wiring to be somehow satisfied, so don’t blow it off. Include it. Somehow!
And, in case you think my kid is impractical, I’ll let you in on something. He chose music education over being a performance major so he has something to fall back on, if needed.

