Midlife is a natural time for many to ponder what they’re doing with their lives.
Wondering if you’re locked into a career you’ve devoted decades to? Not necessarily!
These folks share how they’ve made a change with no regrets.
Care For A Career Change-Up? These Stories Are Proof It’s Never Too Late
It can be scary when you know you want to make a change, but you don’t know how it will work out. Do we ever really know? No!
So, go ahead and treat it as an experiment, give it a go, and let these tips support you through the process.
Here are some bits of advice from those who have done just that!
Does anything speak to you?
What might it take for you to take that next step?
Top of Mind: This Is How to Reinvent Yourself
You may think you have to stay with what you studied in college or what you’ve invested yourself in for a decade or more. You may think you’re too old to make a change. And, none of this is true.
If something else is calling to you, give it a go! You may just discover things within you just bursting to come out as Ina Garten, AKA The Barefoot Contessa, found when she took a leap into the unknown.
Ina Garten’s Proof That It’s Never Too Late to Change Careers
Right here, right now are 7 steps to truly reinvent yourself to give yourself a chance to do work that matters … work that has impact.
“The goal is to have the rare skill of actually getting things done, making them happen and creating outcomes that people seek out.”
Be one who is actually willing to show up, get something done, and learn from it, and doors may open that you never imagined before.
If it’s time for a change, for a new you, who might you become?
Not sure?
Here are some inspiring stories of folks who found a way to begin again, no matter their age or education.
A whistleblower losing their job and being black balled in their field. A politically active executive seeing no choice other than to resign after being harassed for their beliefs. A kid in school getting in trouble for trying to help the victim of a bully.
One of the most confounding dynamics of being human is acting on good faith, pure intentions, and thinking you are doing the right thing only to ‘ruin’ your life in the aftermath.
Having had both a front line and bird’s eye view to some of these scenarios, I can tell you that they are excruciating. That is, until we can step out of ourselves and see that the abrupt turn is actually a new direction being put right in our path.
In the short term there is pain, regret, loss, anger, second guessing and running the scenario over and over in one’s mind until it becomes an unhealthy obsession.
Losing a job or the ability to work in your field or attend your school have real and upsetting consequences. Short term remedies might need to be found.
However, the only way out is through.
I ask my clients to shift their perspective from seeing this turn of events as happening TO them to something that is happening FOR them. To somehow, despite the pain and loss allow the turn to become an invitation to something good and dare I say, even better. (oooh that’s easy to say, but I know, harder to do)
When all you hit are roadblocks, you have to take a detour or find another way.
Take Stock
What are you left with? If a vase fell to the floor and broke into pieces, you still have something left—the water that spilled, the glass pieces, and the flowers that were in it. You can still make something new.
Allow Things To Change Form
This is where people get stuck. They can’t or won’t let their hard skills and soft skills change form and be put to use somewhere new. It’s hard to see another possibility. It becomes an identity crisis. Who am I, if I don’t have what I just lost? This question has a positive answer. You have to set out to find it.
Determine the CORE
What matters now? What mattered to you about the ‘old’ thing you were doing or about the place that you were doing it in? What was central to your satisfaction or happiness with it? Where was the meaning for you?
Whatever your answer to these questions is, is the core of what’s left. THAT becomes the pursuit. Where and how can you exercise that CORE?
Whatever obstacles have been put in your way that keep you from doing what you want to do the way you want to do it are an invitation to change. Change is a tall order, and it’s not easy. But if you want OUT of the pain caused by the block, you have to do a bypass.
Trust me – YOU WILL LAND—you will be found.
Let us know how we can help.
Sometimes it’s hard to believe, but it IS possible to turn your passion into a career. Here’s some evidence in the form of six very successful people who did just that!
What can you learn from them and how might you start moving your passion toward a career today?
6 Super Successful People on How They Turned Their Passion Into a Real Career
Layoffs, downsizing, and “rightsizing” are a common occurrence these days, and often they happen without rhyme nor reason.
If you sense a layoff coming or you’ve already been hit with one, here are some tips for getting through and finding the opportunity as you move on to what’s next.
Underneath the huge list of questions, there are three things employers really want to know (but won’t say out loud).
Can you do the job?
Will you love the job?
Will you be a good fit?
Read on for some great ways to be ready to answer these questions in whatever form they may appear.
